A short thought this
morning as I watch lots of flies, mosquitoes, and other bugs come in through my
open doorway this morning. (we moved
into our humble little abode two days ago and have to replace both of the doors
coming from the outside in-they were almost impossible to shut and very
thin). More on the move in later and
more on why I haven’t posted about that yet later as well.
Anyways, I digress…as
I watched this happening while homeschooling the two kiddos, I found myself
getting upset with the workers, being annoyed that the old door was being taken
off and it was taking so long for the new door to be put on, and all of these
bugs were being allowed to come right in.
But as the kids got busy with something, I decided I should do my Jesus
Calling devotional real quick. As usual,
it spoke right to the core. Today was
about not letting the spiral of complaining happen. Funny how this was just about to occur for me
as this door thing was the icing on the cake as they say.
So, I prayed. God revealed to me rather quickly what I was
supposed to learn through this situation.
If they didn’t take the old door off, how
could they put a new, better door on??? I could leave the old door on and not
have the temporary annoyance of bugs coming in, but would then have to deal
with the long term annoyance of draftiness, kids not being able to open the
door, unable to lock it, ugliness, and so forth…Or I could endure the short term pain for the long term
gain of a prettier, more solid, better equipped door.
So you may be thinking by now, um, duh, I
could have told you this. Yes, I know I
am thick headed at times. You also may
wonder where is she going with this??? Well, God helped me to apply this life
situation to my spiritual situation.
How often do we want to skip on by the hard
stuff? Or complain about it the whole way through? For example, when you want to lose weight or
get in shape, you aren’t real excited about working out and you will probably
whine about having to eat healthy, but you are pumped up to be healthy and fit
in the end. Or if you are saving money
for something, and you are pinching pennies in the meanwhile, it is not a whole
lot of fun, but worth it in the end when you reach your savings goal. For me, right now, I am struggling to endure
some of this short term stuff God has me going through. I feel like we have been here 2 weeks now and
we haven’t done much in the way of ministry or our adoption. And why haven’t you, you might ask? Because of these temporary annoyances that
keep occurring. Do we have our vehicle
yet? Nope! We have been given the run
around I don’t know how many times-they say tomorrow we can finally have it, we
shall see. Do we have consistent running
water at our new house? Nope! Not even
close. Do we have hot water at our
house? Nope! Mickey did a cold bucket shower the other night-I am thankful Aby
let me shower at her house tonight. J Does the power go out
every other hour? Yep! Does it go out
right in the middle of cooking dinner or trying to get our kids to bed?
Yep! Is the container with all our
beds/cookware/dinnerware/kitchen table/homeschool stuff/etc. here yet? Nope! It
has been stuck in Mozambique for about 2 months now. It made it across the ocean but can’t make it
across a few countries. Are you getting
the idea? Lots and lots of short term
aggravations that are dragging me down and making it difficult to see any long
term gain.
Now, here is where you might expect me to
say-I see the light now. I know I am
going to get through these things and it is going to be an amazing year of
ministry here in Africa…I want it to be and I know God wants it to
be-but I JUST CAN’T SEE IT YET.
So, back to the doors. And this is why I struggle to see yet the
long term good of this year…the guys finished the first door and not
kidding, there is a gap the size of Texas at the bottom! A great new solid door with a safe, nice
looking lock and they didn’t cut it right so now-those bugs I was talking about
earlier, well, just include small animals that now can just come on in our
home. We discuss this with them so they
can do the next door better-and what do you know, they do a great job with no gap
at the bottom, but wheweeee, a nice gap at the top. Ugghhhhhh….Now, we must
add some weather stripping to seal the doors up so add another thing to our
list of to dos. And it isn’t like you
can just run down the street to Home Depot and grab this either!
To wrap it up, let’s go way back to the whole
spiral of complaining and what God is teaching me through all of this. Does it ever help our situation to
complain? (I have said this to my kids a
number of times-I need to say it to myself) And the answer is most definitely
no. I can take all this stuff is
happening and call my parents, friends, or talk to anyone who will listen and
complain about it, but this WILL NOT HELP! I really wasn’t trying to complain
above either, just trying to illustrate how the spiral could occur and almost
did. (It did in my mind, and if it is in
my mind, it was sure to come out of my mouth soon enough!)
So even though, I can’t see exactly how this
year is going to pan out yet and I so badly want to, God help me, I don’t want
to get into complaining mode. It would
be so easy to do here, because honestly, it is just a hard place to live
compared to what we are used to. Please
pray for me in this as it takes every ounce of me to not get on this spiral and
let me know if you want me to pray for you-if you are also on the same path towards
WhiningTown. J
Philippians 2:14
Do all
things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and
innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted
generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the
word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in
vain or labor in vain.
Thanks for sharing...we all get in this pattern I think no matter where we are. My bible study had this great thought that went as follows "a truly contented spirit has no room for an attitude of self pity and complaint". Praying for you (and myself) to call on the Holy Spirit and for God to give us truly content spirits. I know this will not be done in our own strength or trying harder but by asking and letting God change our hearts. Appreciate your honesty so much in these blogs Mandey! Praying continually for you guys!
ReplyDeleteRead that devotion yesterday too. Will be praying for you. Just continue to lean on Him.
ReplyDeleteYou just have to remember that we care and want to know what you are going through and even though you want to be strong, it is okay to say it is tough because what you are doing is tough work for the Lord. Yes, He is refining you but He knows your heart and He knows you want to glorify, honor and serve Him. It is not always going to be pretty and your plans may not be His plans but He WILL use you but you just may not know the full effects of how until heaven!!!
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